Living with Autism

Day one and the first thing I heard was Liam asking for the vacuum cleaner - never a good start to the day as it means there is a huge mess in the kitchen.
However, knowing I could have a quick coffee before I had to tackle the mess I actually bounced down the stairs ready to face anything.


Including this ↑

 Ironically caused by this ↑ The little coffee pod I left out last night ready for my first cup. Alanis Morrisett couldn't write this.

Thankfully the lovely Sandra at Nespresso's PR packed a selection of extra pods for the mother of the Teenage Boy (In the background preparing his next mess)

But fortified by this - I was able to clean up calmly without any fuss. Important when you are facing into a long day of 2 autistic kids vs one parent.

The machine is a Krupps Pixie with 19 bars of pressure. The coffees are going to be a choice of these:


Gotta love a drink that comes with a colour chart like a box of choccies!


Today I had an Arpeggio - intense and creamy but a bit cold becaus…

It is Easter School Holidays and the Kids are off school....




The tally so far is brand new sliding shower door: Nil
Liam: 1. 
So he has lost Wednesday Treat Day.


He is out for a walk trying to get a star for Friday Treat Day


As you can imagine - I am a bit strung out at this time of year. And I need my coffee more than ever. 
Mr Hammie and I are daily espresso drinkers and the average affordable consumer coffee machine is made for people who only use them on the weekend. (and drink that satanic poison INSTANT coffee during the week, Gah!) Our coffee machines therefore get about a year's use in 3 months - and tend to die at 13 months - just outside warranty!
Our latest - the much loved Gaggia Dopio retired exhausted late last year.
So today I am taking it to live on a coffee farm where it can chase espresso cups and steam away to its hearts delight. (Sshhh - that's what I am telling it. I am really taking it to Bray Recycling Centre)

At the moment we have a temporary replacement that …

Red Symons was the lead guitarist in Skyhooks - a very cool aussie band in the 70's. He then went on to be the "Simon Cowell" of a talent show on Australian Television.


It was lovely to meet him in person and explain where and how the Grace App came about.

I am just awful at film editing, but I hope you can enjoy these home movies mashed together on iMovie which was the easiest way to put up the MP3 to share.



I seem to have a thing for Radio Presenters who used to be in bands....

Got back from Aus last week. Forgive delay in posting as I managed to smuggle a cold back into the country - in my own head.
So a little photo diary of the trip:

First stop as always was Singapore. We flew Singapore Airlines and I simply cannot overstate how important it is to fly with a good airline when you have special needs kids. We get our priority seating choice, we get priority boarding. We get treated like Royalty when we do board and Liam gets to settle comfortably for the hour or so it takes everyone else to board and secure their hand luggage. We get our child meals and we get the worlds most fantastic economy service. Yes, I wish that they would fly direct out of Dublin - but they don't so we go via London Heathrow or Amsterdam..

This time I booked night flights and that was also wonderful as I got a good nights sleep prior to leaving and a full day to fuss around with suitcases and prepare. Also good to arrive in Singapore in the evening and get a good nights sleep in …

I have a confession to make;
I just cried at a Jack Black movie.

No, not at how bad "Gulliver's Travels" was (which it was) but at School of Rock when the kids play:

I love this movie, and watching it again on Film 4 I just realised why.

You see, when I was in High School in the 80's - I was kind of in a band.

It's okay, nobody let me sing. Or play anything really. But I wrote a song and my English/Music/Video Making Teacher Don Kerby liked it enough to make everyone in the class with any real talent play and record it.
He was in a band too.

Another Lisa -  Lisa Widgery, sang lead vocal. Robert Bell was on Lead Guitar. My friends Helen and Mandy played flute (one of the few flute solos of the 80's) and I may have got to hit a xylophone during the recording at Redwood Studios
I cannot be sure that my few donks of a xylophone made the final mix. But the video made by the Video Making Class of.. I wanna say 1994?  was on Glen Ridge's Channel Six Music Show.

I…

Correlation does not imply causation
I have been wary of discussing a certain ex-Medical Doctor and his faked and fraudulent evidence to prove that Autism was caused by toxicicity of anything a parent may have done to protect their child from preventable diseases. Not because I ever believed it - no Sirree! I have two beautiful and very healthy children who happen to have Autism.
But because any discussion of the above topic will usually bring on a hail of Trolls whose only mission in life seems to be to believe just about anything that cannot be proved. The Earth is flat, and it was made by a Guy riding a Cloud in 7 days, and You Know What causes Autism - they believe it.


I can see where the myth starts, and for that I forgive the parents who were bamboozled into believing it.
People talk about Autism "kicking in" suddenly at the age of 18 months or so. They also talk about "Degenerative Autism" which is not a real thing. What they are experiencing is actually increa…